Money, money, money

Money can be an uncomfortable topic for lots of us.  Many of my clients will start any salary discussion with a vague apology: “It’s not really about the money, but….”  I think this often stems for a vague sense that they’re either not worth a big salary or that earning a lot of money will…

Time to Fight

Like many of you, I was both appalled and unsurprised by last week’s Supreme Court decision that says my freedom and autonomy matter less than a cis man’s.  And like a lot of you, I have spent the time since then pondering what this means, both in the immediate future and in terms of other…

Asking for a raise

Now that you know you’re worth the bucks, and you’ve learned to negotiate your salary, it’s time to start thinking about how ask for a raise.  Yikes!   This can absolutely trip our anxiety wires again, but don’t freak yourself out.  What you’ll do is start by looking back over the last couple of years…

Money can be a little scary

Does money make you nervous?  It can be an intimidating subject for many of us, especially in terms of naming what we’re worth.  If this is you, you’re not alone.   Many of my clients consider themselves people for whom money isn’t a primary concern.  They’re helpers, doers, not greedy money-grubbers!  And I totally respect…